USING LISTENING AND EMPATHY

Growing up is not for the faint of heart. Mr. Ruff and I were visiting last week about the “carefree” childhoods that we both experienced. After more discussion, we were in agreement that although we were blessed with happy childhoods, we would not want to go through those “growing pains”  of being a child again. Yes . . . all of us have had those bumps along the road that are both painful and defining in many ways. 

How do we best support our kids when they are struggling?  Kids are usually more likely to talk about difficult issues if they are interacting with us over some fun activity. The next time your child seems upset, play a game with him, start a woodworking project, or bake some cookies together. You might be surprised what comes out. Always remember that listening and showing that you care, is more  important than “fixing” the problem.

Happy parenting!

Jan Weber, LPC
Skelly/Washington Counselor